Even
if the position of fraternal love is not prominent on the list of
theological graces, St Teresa places if first in her book. (see Way
of Perfection chapters 4-7 and Interior Castle V,3). It
forms, together with the two other virtues she highlights -
detachment and humility - the indispensable trio that ensures a solid
foundation for a fruitful prayer life. As she does for the two other
virtues, St Teresa presents not not only a spiritual way of
practising them, but a heroic way to do so. Hence her style of
presentation is more radical, aimed at promoting perfection, as the
title of the book illustrates: 'Way of Perfection'. By comparison
with many other authors, Teresa delves more deeply into our minds and
hearts, in order to dispose us to progress spiritually to the best of
our ability, with the ultimate aim of reaching union with Jesus.
This
process, to say the least, hardly leaves us unscathed! With spiritual
finesse, the Saint unmasks what is deep within the soul yet barely
discernible to the the average spiritual person! Holiness she reveals
is not the for the faint-hearted! Strong courage, a fighter's spirit
and powerful determination are some of the characteristics Teresa
invites her reader to embody, not to mention aiming for and achieving
the highest thoughts and ideals (see
Way of Perfection,
chapter 23).
- Resolve,
sisters, that it is to die for Christ, and not to practise
self-indulgence for Christ, that you have come here.
(Way of Perfection,
chapter 10)
- [...]
commit yourselves wholly to God, come
what may. What does it
matter if we die? (Way
of Perfection, chapter 11)
- Now,
daughters, you have looked at the great enterprise which we are
trying to carry out. What kind of persons shall we have to be if we
are not to be considered over-bold in the eyes of God and of the
world? It is clear that we need to labour hard and it will be a great
help to us if we have sublime thoughts so that we may strive to make
our actions sublime also.
(Way of Perfection,
chapter 4).
In
sum Teresa advises that our overriding characteristic should be the
courage to face our inner truth and then to be true to it.
Here
a closer examination of her approach and an example to reinforce our
findings would greatly enhance our understanding of Teresa.
It
cannot be more vigorously emphasized that to exercise fraternal love
is fundamental in Spiritual Life! God gave us two commandments - the
first encompassing an all-embracing love of God (Matthew 22:37-39) -
on which everything, the Law and the Prophets, hinges (Matthew
22:40). The second commandment is said to be 'similar' to the first:
your shall love your neighbour as yourself (Matthew 22:39).
One can assume, then, that it is absolutely normal for the second
commandment to be prominent in the journey towards sanctification. As
mentioned in a previous chapter, Christ cannot be cut into two parts,
where we express interest in the Head of the Body, namely, Jesus of
Nazareth, while we neglect his Mystical Body, namely, our brothers
and sisters. Christ cannot be loved on the one hand, when, on the
other hand, we reject Him and sadden Him by wronging a brother. The
love of Christ, received and treasured during the Prayer of the
Heart, must imbue our actions afterwards and become progressively
refined during daily intercourse with our brothers. Incontrovertibly,
love of our neighbour is part of the three indispensable virtues that
summarise the Gospel and which elevate and purify us, in order to
receive Christ more worthily within our hearts.
St
Teresa's way of presenting the three virtues, consequently, becomes
more elevated and gains in unusual intensity. Her aim now becomes to
uplift us toward a purer practice in prayer embedded in greater
spiritual awareness. Why would she do so? The reason becomes evident
when we show determination in following Christ, for relatively soon
we begin to feel his invitation to love, help and serve our brothers
as He reveals himself to us in them. However, at this stage we lack
sufficient self-awareness, being as yet at the beginning of the
journey, and our way of loving is still very weak, feeble and quite
imperfect! One could say with St Paul that the old man (Romans
6:6; Ephesians 2:15; 4:22-24; Colossians 3:9-11) in us is still alive
and well and playing his usual tricks misleading us, thereby
influencing our way of exercising the new virtue of Love. The
capacity of the old man's influence is very limited and limits our
way of loving.
The
main purpose of Teresa's Way of Perfection is
to speak about supernatural 'contemplation'. She issues a clear
warning to the reader, namely, that God can be approached in
two ways: one is through the means of the old man, and the
other is to through the new man's ones. The beginning of our
spiritual journey revealingly concerns this inability to love
perfectly, and St.Teresa tries her utmost to highlight the impact of
the old man on the practice of the virtues! She strongly advises
against practising these willy nilly, in the hope of being
successful. Rather she urges the reader to exceed their known limits,
in order to awaken in the individual a fully functional new man.
In this way Teresa stresses and only in this way, can the acts of
love be purer and please Jesus-God who wants to give Himself to us.
A
brief interjection regarding St. Paul would be useful here. Even
if St Teresa does not directly use St Paul's expression 'new
man' and 'old man',
the real difference between imperfect spiritual love and perfect/pure
spiritual love is found in the differing modalities and their effects
in the human being of the 'old'
and 'new' man. It is
to St John of the Cross that we owe the full explanation of this
difference. He makes a shrewd analysis of the seven mortal sins
transposed onto the equivalent seven spiritual sins, encouraging us
to discover that it is not enough to love God, but that, even more
so, it is necessary to evaluate how we love Him: hence the
expression 'imperfections of the beginner'. (See Dark Night
Book 1, Chapters 1-7)
St
Teresa invites us to love in an oblative detached manner and to do so
likewise with everyone else, for the sake of the Lord. This new and
radical way of loving our neighbour seduces God and powerfully
increases his action in us during the Prayer of the Heart. It is
breathtaking to realise that the more we do what is pleasing to God,
the more He loves us, evoking in Him nothing less than an
irresistible desire to give himself to us – like a magnetic force,
God cannot resist being attracted to us! St John of the Cross
confirms in the following extract, that we can almost impel God to
love us more when we practise fraternal love:
God
does not establish His grace and love in the soul but in proportion
to the good will of that soul’s love. He, therefore, that truly
loves God must strive that his love fail not; for so, if we may thus
speak, will he move God to show him greater love,
and to take greater delight in his soul. In order to attain to such a
degree of love, he must practice those things of which the Apostle
speaks, saying: “Charity is patient, is benign: charity envies not,
deals not perversely; is not puffed up, is not ambitious, seeks not
her own, is not provoked to anger, thinks not evil, rejoices not upon
iniquity, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all
things, hopes all things, endures all things. (Spiritual Canticle
A 10,11 and B, 13,17)
The
Lord himself underlines this strategic element of spiritual life: If
anyone loves me, he
will keep my word, and my Father will love him
(John 14:23; 21). It is like a new wave of love that originates in
God, and ends in us! This might seem astonishing, but this is one of
the most important secrets of the Saints. We know that God loves us,
that God is Love, but here we see it is something concrete, palpable,
it is really received, poured into us! The love of God for us is the
starting point of the Prayer of the Heart: a new love that God has
toward us!
One
can say that the entire book of the Way of Perfection is the
illustration of this verse of St John: If anyone loves Me, he will
keep My word. My Father will love him, and we will come to him and
make Our home with him. This
Teresa skilfully depicts in in the following manner:
The
first part of the book shows our need to learn how to keep Jesus'
word by practising in as perfect a way as possible and by the grace
of God, the three virtues that please God most. The effect following
on from this, initiates the start of the Prayer of the Heart: My
Father will love him. Finally, pure contemplation can occur in
the Prayer of the Heart when as a result: we will come to him and
make Our home with him. Indeed, in its complete form, this verse
shows us the link between the practice of the evangelical virtues and
the new transformed love given to us during the Prayer of the Heart.
To receive a new transformed love from the Father and the Son, and to
receive this coming of the Father and the Son into us - does this not
embody the Prayer of the Heart? Here it is patently obvious that
there is a deep and intimate link between the virtues practised
during our daily activities and the Prayer of the Heart.
Let
us take an example in order to illustrate the difference between the
two loves, the imperfect one and the perfect one. Accordingly, even
if love is an act of the will, when we love our emotions are directly
involved. Initially, however, they are not yet purified, transformed
and totally moved by God. As a consequence, without our being aware
of it, we make preferences in our way of loving: we do not love as
God loves. God loves because He is Love: He comes out of himself, He
gives himself to us without making any distinction between the good
and the bad. He
gives his sunlight to both the evil and the good, and he sends rain
on the just and the unjust alike”(Matthew
5:45). God does not find the motivation or the reason to love us
within us, but within himself. By contrast, we human beings merely at
the beginning of our journey, fail to act with such perfection, for
to love in this way does not come easily to us. If, for example, in
the workplace or in a religious community there are ten colleagues or
brothers: we often find that with one or two we, quite spontaneously,
have things in common, or whose company we really enjoy and desire to
frequent more, all quite spontaneously, with another one or two, we
find that we are not inclined to enjoy their presence, and our
attitude towards the rest could is average normality. These three
different reactions are spontaneous, natural, normal to have and not
blameworthy by any means.These inclinations can in no way be
considered sinful. But, if we surrender to this natural reaction and
if our action is influenced by it, as a consequence the tendency to
spend increasing time with the persons with whom we are in accord
will result, so that we might neglect or even avoid the ones with
whom we have no affinity or even dislike. Can this be to love as God
loves? Ironically our way of loving leads to our being caught in the
trap of our own superficial making. While it is evident that we all
agree that we should love our neighbour, we deceive ourselves and do
not necessarily acknowledge that our act of love is stained by a
great weakness. It is
therefore good to encourage detachment, especially of our instinctive
preferences, to concentrate on overcoming our defects by the grace of
God and to deliberately choose to love this or that person whom we
actively dislike, by finding even more profound reasons to do so: to
love because this individual has been created, loved and saved by
God, because he or she deserves to be loved as God loves....
The
Growth of Love
Of
necessity, now, some questions arise: what is the relationship
between the love of neighbour and the curve of our spiritual growth?
Does love grow? Does love have a limit?
The
love that binds us to God and the love that binds us to our neighbour
is the same love - it is nothing less than the Holy Spirit! The
closer we grow towards God, the more closely are we united to Him,
and the more our love toward our neighbour is deepened, purified and
enlarged, to embrace, finally, the whole world. Our spiritual life
reflects this in an enhanced growth, where an acute awareness of our
poverty, our weakness and the miserable state or our soul becomes
increasingly manifest, but where, simultaneously, our appreciation of
the infinite mercy of God becomes daily more apparent. As a
consequence, there is a rising tide of Mercy and Compassion in our
heart, this becoming instinctively translated into prayer.
For
the human being who has reached, as it is termed, this Union with
Christ (Spiritual Marriage, Seventh Mansions of the Interior
Castle), St Teresa repeatedly underlines the fact that it is a
great act of mercy to remember in our prayers all those who are
enslaved in grave or mortal sin, those who are in the First Mansions
of the Castle. The action of the Holy Spirit within us now reveals
itself in an enlarged capacity to gather our brothers and sisters
into our hearts.
As
one can see, during the Prayer of the Heart God purifies our love for
our neighbour, elevates it, transforms it, and in tandem, our daily
life offers us opportunities to love our neighbour as God desires. In
consequence our capacity for love is enlarged, attracts God into our
heart and draws Him with irresistible force to give himself
increasingly to us!
Believe
me, sisters, the soldiers of Christ - namely, those who experience
contemplation and practise prayer - are always ready for the hour of
conflict. They are never very much afraid of their open enemies, for
they know who they are and are sure that their strength can never
prevail against the strength which they themselves have been given by
the Lord: they will always be victorious and gain great riches, so
they will never turn their backs on the battle. (Way of
Perfection, chapter 38)
A
brief comparison with this and a comment made by St. Therese of
Lisieux endorses this complementary action of love. This Saint
remarked, that from her youth, she was very impressed by a passage of
St John of the Cross where he says that exercising love is of utmost
importance hastening our journey to the fullness of Love and
Transformation in Jesus:
With
what longing and what consolation I repeated from the beginning of my
religious life these other words of St. John of the Cross: 'It is of
the highest importance that the soul practice love very
much in order that, being consumed rapidly, she may be
scarcely retained here on earth but promptly reach the vision of her
God face to face.' (Yellow Notebook, 27.7.5)
In
fact a reading of Manuscript C of the Story of the Soul would
greatly benefit the aspiring practitioner of the Prayer of the Heart,
as it includes different examples and advice offered by Therese on
the love of our neighbour.
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